Some weeks are
stressful as a missionary. Especially when working as Elder Cook put it, "On
the front lines, where the pickings are slim and you (the missionaries) are all
we got." Like I said over our skpye
session, working in a tiny branch is frustrating most of the time. The church
is moving locations, our old lease was up and the owner wanted to sell us the
building for an extremely high price - so the church bailed out of that
situation. Which meant that Tuesday, we needed to move all the chairs, benches,
and pulpits out of the old building and into the new. So just like our family
always did in the "good old days", I participated in another church
move.
Tuesday we arrived at
the church at 10am. Within a few minutes a handful of members showed up. With
no moving truck or priesthood leader to tell us how to do it, we decided that
we would at least move all the furniture out of the building and onto the
driveway. We figured that at some point or another everything would leave the
building, so why not get a head start before the truck arrived. For the next 2
hours we moved out the majority of things, putting my moving talents to good work!
And then...we waited. Waited for the truck and further direction.
To our surprise, we
learned that the new building in Bali (a neighborhood) was not yet open. The
old renters had yet to leave! Well, where are we putting everything? The branch
president showed up and explained that we would be storing everything in the
Bonaberi branch. Now to explain what that meant, Douala (my current city) is separated
into two major parts. Douala and Bonaberi. The two sides are separated by a
river, and there is only one bridge to get across. As such, we have two
branches - one on each side of the river. The distance isn’t terribly long, but
the traffic is horrid! Last p-day we played soccer with the Elders from the
other side, and it took over an hour to cross the bridge. So when our branch
president told us of the plan, we were a little less than excited. But as I
think the expression goes, we squared our shoulders and got to work.
Now the complications
didn’t end there. Before the moving truck came, the owner of the building
showed up. He was angry for some reason - declaring that we owed him money,
even though the contracts had all been finalized and signed. His intent was to
literally stop us from leaving! To give you a mental image, think of a narrow
alleyway. At one end was our church building, then in front all our stuff, then
the owner's car, then the moving truck. HEY YOU CRAZY MAN, MOVE YOUR CAR SO WE
CAN LOAD OUR TRUCK! After some stupid argument, we gave him a choice. Move your
car so we can leave or we will put everything back inside and stay here without
paying. He opted to move his car and take his keys.
Well around 6pm we
finished the move. A full day of service. And although we didn’t teach any
lessons, I think this was one of the most productive days of my mission. Every
hour was filled with a meaningful activity - moving the branch. As of today,
all our stuff is still in storage at the Bonaberi branch. Our building in Bali
is clear, but the church is making some modifications on the house, so that we
can have rooms for all the different auxiliaries. Which means, we will move all
the stuff from storage to Bali next week. (hopefully)
For the time being,
we’re holding church in a hotel! Hotel Piano.
We rented out the conference room and held Sunday School and Sacrament Meeting
yesterday. The room, in the words of Elder Colindres, “is like a basement.” Yeah,
pretty accurate.
Now, I said this week
was stressful, and it wasn’t the church move that was hard. No, it was
yesterday. As well as working in a tiny branch, being with a companion not of
your own choosing can be rough. And it gets tougher, when that companion
doesn’t speak the same language and has a culture almost completely opposite
from yours. All week, I was getting annoyed with my companion. Just a bunch of
little things that rubbed away at my patience. I tried to support it well, and
just keep to myself. As you’ll learn from this story that isn’t what you should
do. If someone is constantly annoying you, talk with them about it otherwise
it’ll build up until you go crazy on the person!
Well, I didn’t really
believe in that counsel when the week started, so when Sunday came around I had
a long list of complaints. Then this happened – the young men called us to the
sacrament table after church and asked, “Can we eat the blessed sacrament bread
after church?” I boldly said, NO! They shouldn’t eat it and others shouldn’t
eat it either. I spoke pretty boldly because this is an ordinance – something
of big importance. Now, I’ll just say my companion then told them something
different than what I said…ohh, I was livid.
So there goes Elder
Johnson, «full-on-battle-mode» as it were, against his companion. We argued for
a while over this question. I was determined to not let my companion say
something that was «false». In the words of Elder Colindres again, «I’ve lived
with you (Johnson) for almost a year now. When you get angry, you mean it – and
today you were pissed!» At the climax, Elder Mwehu was walking away from me and
I ran up behind him and pretended to kick him in the butt haha! True, I’m a
missionary, but I guess I’m still a human. (and only 19)
I smile now, because
looking back it was pretty funny J Okay, so here is the lesson of the story, it
comes in the after-math. For the rest of the day I was upset, but also
regretful for having blown up. I decided that we would talk about what
happened, when we got home. I wasn’t going to let this one go. I felt inspired
to do the following. We got home and ran our numbers for the week, then I said, «okay, before we close for the day we need
to talk about what happened.»
First, I had us both
explain our position on the question. Elder Mwehu said what he thought while I
listened without interrupting. Then I did the same. After I grabbed two Church
manuals, and said «we are going to read what the official church policy is on
the sacrament, after we will not discuss it. We are just going to read it
together.» So that’s what we did. After
we discussed that next time a question on church administration is asked to us,
we will direct the members to the branch president, who is called to take care
of the administration aspects. I gave Elder Mwehu a hug and all was worked out
–no more hard feelings.
Lesson number 1 –
Follow the promptings of the spirit and things will work out. The things we did
in that discussion were things I felt like we needed to do. All three of them.
True, it was a little awkward to kick off, but it worked. Follow the spirit and
things work out.
Lesson number 2 –
Resolving problems in relationships is necessary. I remember a Liahona that
said, « some people destroy their marriages (in this case it applies to a
missionary companionship) because they avoid talking about the weightier
matters.» Talking about problems sincerely and openly helps. I think this one will
apply to me more fully when I’m married!
Lesson number 3 –
Lift where you stand. It isn’t our duty as missionaries to tell the branch how
to function. That is the branch President ‘s calling. We are there to teach
doctrine, not run the branch. Had Elder Mwehu and I directed the young men to
their leaders, we would’ve avoided the whole situation. But in trying to do
something that wasn’t our responsibility, we shot ourselves in the feet. Now,
if I ever become a bishop, I’ll be making sure that NO ONE eats the sacrament
bread as a snack. Those are my feelings on the matter – but for right now, I’m
not a Bishop. I’m a missionary. So I’ll do as the primary song says, « teach
and preach and work as MISSIONARIES do. » Lift where you stand in the church –
it’s much better that way!
Hopefully no one
thinks I’m trying to preach to you guys. These are just things that I, Elder Johnson,
learned this week from my experiences. There were many other things that
happened this week. Like the New Year’s parties, but these stories were the
best! Happy New Year (out here people
will be saying that for a few months), best of luck on all the resolutions.
Elder Colindres and I wrote our resolution for 2015 – marriage haha. I love you
guys bunches –honestly I do. Make it a good week!
ps – on New Year’s
Eve people threw «Flash-bang-like» flares in the air all night. It sounded like
shot guns being fired all over the city. But around 12am, a fire-work went off
right outside our balcony. It was so loud that it scared me enough to make me
fall out of bed. haha.
Our church building "threw up" haha
A really pretty leaf, wanted to show you guys some of the beauty in Africa
January 1, the town was empty, cuz everyone was partied out.
There are trees
around town that are full of little yellow birds. like 50 nests in one tree.
